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“I have learned that we are standing on a burning platform.
And, we have more than one explosion – we have multiple points of scorching heat that are fuelling a blazing fire around us.
For example, there is intense heat coming from our competitors, more rapidly than we ever expected. Apple disrupted the market by redefining the smartphone and attracting developers to a closed, but very powerful ecosystem.”
A few friends have been busy launching new businesses over the last few weeks, and some others have new sites or existing bits and bobs that you might be interested in at this time of year, so here is one post, plugging them all. Note – I’m not on commission for any of them!
Grow your own cows
Written by Reb Williams, and illustrated by Maria Smedstad
When Reb Williams’s ad exec dad had a mid-life crisis, he didn’t get a Ferrari. He got green. Before Fearnley-Whittingstall let his chickens run free, even before Tom and Barbara were on the telly, the Williams family gave up the rat race and moved out to the country to live the Good Life. Only they weren’t very good at it… This hilarious account of growing up with eco-freak parents was first published in the Guardian’s ‘Experience’ column. Now you can read the full story, hairy udders and all.
Revival Retro stocks a range of vintage style clothing. It’s new, not second hand, it comes in a range of sizes and is high quality production and design. You can dance in it, party and generally enjoy wearing these garments time and time again.
The website now includes a shop, and ships worldwide (except the US), so this is not just for London people. Every friend you have who defines their own dress style and doesn’t follow the high street, all you swing dancers who go to international camps – dancers from other cities perhaps don’t have local access to this kind of stuff, every friend who might not have a clue what to buy their partner for Christmas…
Bespoke, contemporary and rustic handmade furniture.
Clean and honest designs that showcase the integrity of the materials to create truly tactile products from sustainable sources that seamlessly marry established design principles with modern lifestyle demands.
Moon Horse is an online bookstore specialising in lesbian interest titles, both printed and ebooks. It has a huge range of books at competitive prices.
Have I missed anyone? Any friends out there thinking harrumph, why is she not plugging my stuff? Let me know.
One of my local movie theaters just added the option of special seats that move in sync with the action on screen. Now every time I want to see a movie with friends, I need to poll everyone to see what sort of seat they want. Worse yet, another nearby theater offers dinner with movies. It won’t be long before planning a movie will take more ti me than the movie itself.
Let me say it again: World, I’ll pay extra if you will please give me less.
I’ve stumbled upon a habit that I really like, and was reminded of it this weekend when the Oxford/Cambridge Boat Race was on. No, not the habit of shouting partisan abuse at the TV whilst drinking G&T and wondering how the spin a 15 minute race into a 2 hour programme. Although I do that too.
The habit is one that happens each new year, when H and I sit down and look back at that year’s calendar. We look at the events we went to, or thought about going to, and find the dates for those events in the coming year. As well as being a review of the year we’ve just had, it starts us thinking about what we want to make an effort to do in the New Year. There are always more events in the new calendar than we would go to, but I really enjoy thinking about what things it might be good to keep in mind. Even if we are not going to make a special effort to go to all of the events (I have no desire to actually go to the boat race, and wouldn’t really mind if I was not able to watch it), I like being able to keep them in mind when planning the other things we want to use our weekends for, like camping, walking and family stuff.
The list we added this year gives you a good overview of what our priorities are:
- Burns night – just a reminder to eat haggis some time around then.
- Geek nights – that’s mine. I go sporadically depending on the line-up.
- Red Box – monthly women’s night that I co-organise.
- Childish Things – comedy fundraiser for Helen & Douglas House.
- Oxford / Cambridge Boat Race.
- Cambridge Beer Festival – a fine, fine beer festival with a great cheese and pie stand. We go to this if we possibly can.
- Eurovision Song Contest – we take it year about with a friend to host a party for the final, but the semi-finals are also compulsory viewing.
- Oxford Pride – can’t miss this, given that we’re both involved in organising.
- Oxford Race for Life – H runs this whilst I hold the picnic.
- Cowley Rd Carnival – a local street party.
- Cambridge Folk Festival – we went once, and will probably go again some time when the line-up appeals.
- Erewash Triathlon – more of H’s sportiness whilst I whoop and cheer.
- Oxford Beer Festival – a long-standing tradition, but there’s a rumour it’s moving venue this year so we’ll need to see how that affects the habit.
- Winter Lights Festival – street entertainment and the museums open late for torch-lit tours.
Some of them are the events that make Oxford Oxford for me, and some are the things we both enjoy and want to make the most of.
You might notice some conspicuous absences. There’s no World Cup of anything, no Glastonbury, no WImbledon. In fact, the only reason I pay attention to the football season is to judge when might be a good day for trip to Ikea.
Each year, some things get added and some fall off. Does anyone else have a similar habit, and what are the markers for your year?
I’ve avoided making resolutions this year, but that doesn’t mean that there are not things I want to do differently or better. I am mulling over some goals that I want to be explicit about and track my progress against, but I know that I will find some of them difficult to persevere with. There is a lot of information available at this time of year about goal-setting and resolutions. A couple of people whose approaches I admire are Chris Guillebeau at The Art of Nonconformity and Leo Babauta at Zen Habits. This recent Zen Habit post struck a chord.The philosphy is one I already apply:
Stop waiting for happiness. Happiness is right here, right now.
Unfortuantely, I can sometimes use this as an excuse the maintain the status quo. Instead, I should see it as a reason to make the most of changes I am making to achieve my goals. They are not chores – they are new experiences.
Learning a new skill. Whether you want to learn French, or to play the trombone, or to master Jeet Kune Do, will you only be happy once you’ve learned the skill? No! Learn to love the learning process! It’s an exploration not only of new territory, but of yourself. It’s wonderful.
So by all means, I can make a new resolution or take on a new goal, but I need to make sure I am enjoying the journey as well as anticipating the destination.